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How to Use a Vibrator: Tips From Sex and Wellness Experts

Before you invest in any vibrator, make sure it aligns with your sexual preferences and goals. For example, you don’t want to spring for a G-spot stimulator if you’re looking for anal play (doing so may result in an embarrassing trip to the emergency room). It’s all about the innovative combination of Pleasure Air Technology and deep , rumbly vibrations that work in perfect harmony to stimulate the clitoral glans in ways traditional vibrators simply can’t match.

Now we have the Vesper 2—born out of a Kickstarter campaign in late 2022 and officially launched in the summer of 2023. How could Crave upgrade something that was already close to perfection? Well, let me just say if you’re a fan of the original Vesper, you’ll love this one too. Overall, I enjoyed seeing how Dame Products combined new technology to give users an updated experience with something many of us already love — masturbating the old-fashioned way, by hand.

This powerful little pleasure device comes with SenseMotion™ technology, meaning the remote responds to movement. And whether you’re in the mood for a slow build or want to go all out from the get-go, the Tiani 3 has you covered with 8 different pleasure settings. If your vibrator is controlled remotely by a smartphone app, the process is a little different. Not only are they designed to sync with all the videos on the site’s interactive section, they can connect wirelessly with other Pornhub toys. This means you can climax along with your partner even if they’re on a different continent via the “Feel Connect” app. Though the 814e Koa aspires to 1940s and ’50s American flattop vintageness, it doesn’t always deliver on that count.

It’s made up of a silicone sleeve that holds two bullet vibrators vibrator, one of which has a higher-pitched “treble” frequency versus the other’s lower “bass” frequency. Get the Jett situated just right—high on the shaft—and the vibrators press against your sensitive frenulum. The remote (which is wired, awkwardly) lets you control the vibrators separately to nail your own “oh WOW” combo of buzz and rumble.

The Dame Kip is a perfectly effective and elegant lipstick-style vibrator, but it is usually more expensive than the equally powerful Satisfyer Purple Pleasure. In an earlier version of this guide, we named the CalExotics Silver Bullet as our budget pick. Subsequently we concluded that the pricier but cordless Satisfyer Purple Pleasure offered stronger vibrations, was made of better-quality materials, and was more aesthetically pleasing. None could surpass the Magic Wand in terms of both time-tested power and value. The corded Doxy Number 3 is a smaller, quieter version of the Doxy Original. Although this sleek wand is both aesthetically pleasing and powerful, it costs more than our Magic Wand picks and the original Doxy.

Public play involving remote-controlled vibrators introduces an element of control and anticipation for both partners. Men often derive pleasure from exercising control over their partner’s arousal, edging, and orgasmic release. Observing subtle changes in expression and physical responses adds to the excitement of public play. For women, relinquishing control can lead to heightened sensations and a deeper sense of submission, fostering a thrilling dynamic between partners. So, when the opportunity arose to try out the latest in sex-toy technology, I jumped at the chance. Eva is a hands-free vibrator designed to stimulate the clitoris during sex.

Then consider the range of intensities and patterns the toy provides, Carol Queen, PhD, a sex educator with Good Vibes, tells SELF, so you can turn it up as you get more turned on—or lower it if you want to draw out your orgasm. Most of our panel said this egg-shaped vibrator helped them achieve a more intense orgasm and they all noted how quiet it was, so they didn’t have to worry about anyone hearing it if they were in the next room. Our testers found it provided a completely different experience compared to other vibrators on the market and said it was beautifully designed. Lexington, Kentucky-based marriage and family therapist Juliana Hauser, PhD, previously told Allure where you place your vibrator is critical. High-frequency vibration designed to run off of pneumatic air power.

You’ve already got a remote control for your TV and your stereo, but the best remote control vibrators are a whole ‘nother ball game, allowing you to dial up the sensations during sex without barely lifting a finger. Yep, nowadays you don’t have to awkwardly fumble with the buttons embedded on your sex toys during a romp like a plebe. Many vibrators for women and men come with their own remote or sync up with an app on your phone for ease of use and even some long-distance intrigue. Plus, when you add tech assistance to your sex life, you’re just asking for a good time.

It’s specifically designed for backdoor play, and it has many features other toys don’t have. The We-Connect app lets you control the vibration patterns remotely, meaning you can have even more fun with your partner at the helm… whether they’re across the room or on another continent. Plus, with the We-Connect app, you can create custom vibration patterns that will send you over the edge. And if that’s not enough, the Vector also comes with a dedicated remote control for easy use.